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Why is it so hard for us to be yourself

Be yourself – 
I am rude and play the forefront
But you might not like me
I like to say everything on your face
But you do not like to be with me
I am cruel to those I do not like
But you might feel I am not true
I love to be myself
But, still, you do not find me faithful
Can you elaborate on the meaning of being yourself?
When I am myself
People think I am spoiled
Why everyone judges me?
What I have done wrong?
Why not one understand my words?
Why people couldn’t get my points?
These are some of my questions
That I am still struggling to solve out
There are millions of people out there, who couldn’t differentiate between be yourself (according to them) and be yourself (according to society). What is true? When someone said something true that sounds bad, then why not everyone can digest it. What we are teaching our future kids, be yourself or be yourself.

The first be yourself, which is linked with me are –

Be true

  • Be faithful.
  • Be happy.
  • Be rude.
  • Love yourself.
  • Prefer what you want to be.
  • If you do not want to be with anyone, then stay alone..
  • You are not in the earth to impress everyone, stay loyal to those, who always there for you.

The second be yourself, which is correlated with society are –

  • Be civilized
  • You cannot be rude
  • Do not use abusive language
  • Girls should know how to cook
  • Boys don’t cry
  • You cannot lose your virginity before the marriage
  • You cannot date much more boys
  • Only boy should be responsible for all expenditure

Why our society cannot follow the things they taught us? Why a boy is responsible for the family? Why son-in-law cannot stay with his in-laws? Why everything is linked with culture?

In our life, we only know two things – the first that we should be ourselves, and the second one that we should follow society. We all are struck between the two worlds – one where we live according to us, and the other one, where we live in on the culture of society.

In the shadow of Sadhguru Sakshi Shree Ji, we learned one thing that nothing is permanent neither your pain nor your smile. To be yourself, to be true, to live in a world, where you and society are not different from each other, you only need to live with Sakshi Kriya.
Yes, it is a Kriya that teaches you how to live a healthy, happy, and honest life. In Science Divine, Sadhguru Sakshi Shree Ji is working diligently to promulgate the art of living in the moment. We all forget to live in the present; we are running for those days that might not come. You cannot predict your next minute, so how can you waste your present for your future.
Be yourself; do not stress yourself to think about how others will think about you. People might say some cruel words to you; they might judge you for your decisions. Always remember, that nothing is compulsory and permanent in this world, except your soul.
 
Science Divine is a platform where you can get the knowledge of living in the present, the art of meditation, the facts of being yourself, the methods of life, the purity of positive thinking, and the path towards happiness. Here, Sadhguru Sakshi Shree Ji is diligently working to promulgate the power of logical positivism.
Little changes in your lifestyle and thinking can open up the windows of a loving life.